Hi guys, I am hoping to get some input from other married couples. My husband and I got married recently and we had a small event and decided to wait until next year for a big event and move in after that. I am not quite sure how to feel. He’s living with his parents and I’m living with my mom (in a house that I also own). He wants to go fifty-fifty on everything (wedding, bills etc). I have a mortgage and bills already meanwhile whatever he makes he spends on his cars. Mind you he also has a side hustle where he makes money by working on cars. He doesn’t want to share his finances with me. After many fights, I have convinced him to finally get a joint account with me. Somehow I have managed to put more money in the account than him. He asks me for my card if he is pumping gas in my car, somehow manages to get me to pay for food every other time. He hasn’t gotten me a single present. He only wants to have a wedding if I pay half of it. Like I don’t have the luxury of staying with my parents and them paying for everything (from food to everything in between). Not sure if I am over reacting or is he just cheap?