So I am just going to drive right on in it...

I am a 28yo mom of 3, (6yo, 3yo, and 11month old) I am currently a full time student doing a career change, and will be working part time as soon as I pass this next class.

I don't have friends, the only person I have is my husband.

I've been so overwhelmed for almost a year now. We had lived in a different state and almost filed bankruptcy so we had to come back to our home state. I'm in charge of everything, the only thing my husband is in charge of is working and being the fun dad.

I just have been trying to find ways to help myself, so I thought hey, why not some spontaneous sex, and maybe introduce something new, fun in the bedroom. I could use the dopamine release.

Well, not even a minute into it he complained about something so miniscule... and it was directed towards me and my body. I don't want to get too deep, but it wasn't a put down or anything emotionally abusive, but more of something that just immediately turned me right off... something he could have just kept to himself and moved on. Or at least I would have..

I just want something to help. The moment I try and help myself in any matter, it seems to just turn on me instantly.

Any suggestions appreciated.

Thanks