Been dating this guy for some time now. We waited to have sex to make sure we were both on the same page in terms of what we want out of relationship. He’s a really great guy and very different from guys I normally go for, which I love.

The problem the sex is just ok. His stroke game was not good, i only semi enjoyed when I was on top. He was talking about how he fucks hard and rough etc before we had sex but I did not experience that, even after telling him to fuck me harder.

Tbh sex was only ok because of my feelings for him. I really like him but I can’t do bad sex, what can I do to fix this?