Does everyone else's partner behave like a mad man when they are mad? I am in a 2 year marriage and things nowadays seem to have taken a different turn ,we have a newborn and honestly I feel like my husband doesn't help me enough as his partner.

He provokes me and I get so mad at times and abuse him,I take ownership of that but it's become so hard doing marriage with him. It has crossed me so many times how it would be if I left but then again our issues are more like I don't think he helps me enough with the baby. I'm so conflicted and I don't know if therapy would help. Anyone else who thought their relationship didn't have meaning and it changed for the better?