Am I wrong? My gender reveal was yesterday, I was upset about gender. i was already planning my baby shower professionally. Today my mom texts me and says one of my family members is planning a baby shower and we’re gonna have 2. then she texts people announcing it and my gender. I feel that that’s overstepping i’m barely excited about 1 shower I don’t want 2 and she doesn’t even ask me what I want before she go doing things knowing I havnt even processed my gender yet! And she cussed me out for saying she is trying to control my pregnancy….