TTC 40 & 16 Days Late From Period

Ka

My last official menstrual was Oct 7th. I went to Jamaica the 18-27, and my husband and I were intimate the entire time. Come back home the 30th I see spotting when I used the bathroom that night. The very next day my flow was very light. Then November 1st on its been nonexistent. My period was due on the 5th. I haven’t seen it yet. I’ve tested twice and both tests have been negative. I don’t wanna get my hopes up to get them crushed. I have an appointment Tuesday to get a blood test due to the fact that the urine tests for some reason never detect pregnancy in my system.

Is anyone else going through this at the moment? I appreciate all feedback.