Does anybody else’s child’s father constantly make little comments or do things to make you look like a bad or lazy mom when you’re around his family? It’s SO annoying. We’re now separated and he still does it. Our son (2 years old) lives with me full time since we split. His dad is in the middle of moving so he’s currently staying at his parents house until his new house is ready to move into and anytime he wants to visit our son I’ve been going there. There’s been manyyyy occurrences where he’s made it out like I’m not helping with our son or he’s “so overwhelmed with our son because I’m not helping” etc. and it’s bs. He ONLY does it when we’re either around his family or even when he’s on the phone with any of his family members. Even when we was together and would go visit with any of his family he would want me to unbuckle our son and give him to him so HE could be the one to carry our son in. Then when we would leave if I tried to carry our son out he would want to carry him then once we got to the car he would give him back to me to buckle because he won’t even buckle him into his car seat.😒 Just 2 days ago he wanted to visit our son so we went to his parents house and we were downstairs. His brother called him so he answered and was talking about his car that he’s getting fixed. There’s a garage connected to the downstairs at his parents and he walked into the garage like 50 feet away from where I was sitting eating and our 2 year old followed him which I assumed was fine because his dad was gonna be with him. I literally got up 5 seconds later to go check on him and make sure he was paying attention to our son while on the phone and before I even got fully into the garage he was huffing and puffing to his brother on the phone and said “hang on I’ll just have to call you back I’m not getting any help from her with him right now” and hung up on his brother. Like I said I was LITERALLY walking into the garage when he did that. I picked our son up and was giving him some of the fruit I was eating. He started crying because he wanted to stay in the garage but I brought him back inside the den and his grandma (my ex MIL) started coming down the stairs and asked why he was crying and before she got completely down the stairs, his dad grabbed him out of my arms and held him so when his mom came down there it looked like he was the one who got him out of garage. She said “wow little britches (our sons nick name) is upset” his dad scoffed and looked at me and said “yeah and I’m not getting no help with little britches. I can’t even make a 5 minute phone call.) and was all pissed off making it out like I’m just not helping with him. He done it so bad even when we was together there was times he would be on the phone with one of his friends or his mom or brother and they would ask what he was doing and he would be like “oh nothing I’m changing a diaper” or “feeding the baby” and it would literally be ME sitting there doing that like??🙃🫠 it pisses me off so bad. He never gives me any credit as a mom or tells me I’m doing a good job. Nothing. And honestly I feel like since I’m the one who lives with our son and primarily takes care of him, even if I DIDNT chase after him going into the garage with his dad and wanted to sit down and eat my fruit there shouldn’t have been anything wrong with that because I have to make phone calls with him at home ? Why can’t he? And if it’s HIS visiting time I shouldn’t have to chase after our son and help him the whole time like it’s so aggravating.