Today my husband told me that I wasn't giving him enough sex (I've been on my period heavily for 42 days due to my nexplanon implant). We've had sex several times in that time to which my bleeding got even heavier. I told him this and he said "well you have a hand and a mouth". I tried to explain that bleeding this much is not only physically taxing and painful but also emotionally taxing and that i just haven't wanted it with everything going on in our lives right now. Not to mention I also have a uti right now and he keeps accusing me of having an STD. He got mad and said this is why men go out and seek other options. We got in a huge fight which ended up him saying that he doesn't feel loved by me and that he would never treat me as an equal, that'd i'd always be less than him because he will be the one making more money (he's in medical school right now). That we have different relationship roles for goals and that we should separate in the spring when we have the money to do so because I can't fulfill his ideas of what a wife should be (obedient and subservient). Because he is the boss and he alone will always be the boss.