I hate this BOY! He’s a man child

Boyfriend and I have 2 kids.

He gets angry at me for nothing.

Hangs out all night long, sleeps all day long and tells me I don’t take care of the kids. Didn’t show up for the thanksgiving party, called me 4 hours after is started and asked me to pick him up. Just for his friend to show up and he left with him 30 minutes after getting there,

I made him a plate of food, he left it in my car and made himself a plate, my kids ended up eating the food because they were hungry and he made himself a plate and also went and got a plate at his friends house. I went back home after the party where he was and he claimed he left his food in his friends car and needed to meet him to pick it up, he never came back and claimed he did Uber all night till 8 am and asked me to buy him a beer at 8:30 AM I said no. And I looked at his phone too he was not UBERING all night he did 1.

Come today he said he couldn’t find his food in the fridge, I said what food? He said his food he had 2plates i was like well I don’t know what 2 plates. The kids ate the plate that I made. And he started screaming at me telling me that I was a stupid dumb bitch with a fat mouth that prob ate it myself. He broke my new earrings I bought myself for thanksgivin. And I wanted to have the kids in bed, he let our son stay up and watch tv after I turned the lights off and he as half way to sleep. He told me to be quiet. And allowed him to hit my daughter with a pillow. Scream and they turned the lights on waking her up. He told my son if he had to pee to just piss all over my face. My son has became abusive because of his father and he thinks it’s okay.telling me “see what you do to him, I’m never around this is what your teaching him”

My son acts like his dad when he is with him, than turns around and blames me saying that I’m the cause of his nasty attitude. He used to tell my son to tell me I’m a fat bitch, and when my boyfriend expects for me to respond to his insults he says YO BITCH, YO DUMB BITCH. To get me to talk to him