My husband has recently confessed that when we got together, he thought maybe he would be able to make me lose weight. I have always been obese I’m not gonna say fat because I’m not. I’m actually obese don’t get me wrong. I love my body I always have and never have had issues about my apperance until now with my husband this past year has been a roller coaster. We have welcomed our  baby girl into our lives, and it has been a change. I have never been skinny, and I don’t think I will ever. I never thought this was an issue since he met me the way I was back then, and I was by all means not skinny so for him to confess this seven-year lateR throws me off and has me thinking a lot about our relationship. We have not had it east asfertility has been a great stress on our marriage but now with our little girl it has been unfortunately worst I don’t feel loved. I feel like he is just with because of the baby and I have asked if he wants to get a divorce i do not want him to be with me just because we have baby and so many miscarriages. He says if I love him I would because if we get divorced I would probably loose weight. I have been trying  to lose weight but I feel I like I am doing it for the wrong reasons, and it’s making it harder for my body to lose weight. My come back has been. If you loved me, you would love me for who I am and not my body. but apparently physical features are a big thing and sometimes I think I deserve better. We have talked about marriage through the church. But he says until I don’t lose weight, he won’t marry me which put alot of stress on me. Honestly this is the worst , we have had such a beautiful relationship apart from that situation. My weight. He is the most amazing husband he has me being a stay at home mom. Buys me everything. Makes me feel loved, but this whole situation of the weight is what makes everything go down hill. Any thoughts would be appreciated