2 under 2 and I think it’s time for a divorce

Me

10 years of being with husband. From the beginning his mom never liked me, she would ignore me when I said hello and made comments that if we get married she’s gonna take his name off the house. It’s her only son and his dad died when we met. She is a nurse and bc he was abusive to her when they met, she didn’t care to help but instead put him in a hospice. My husband is a complete mamas boy. We fought from day 1 bc he was always mad she never got along with me. I was always a people pleaser and did kind things for her yet was never enough. She came by for thanksgiving called my son a SOB and got us sick she took her mask off and coughing all over kitchen. Husband defends everything she does. She told us don’t call her for anything. Husband calls my parents who he used to say were meddling and now stressing them out to the point where my dads pressure sky rocketed. We been through therapy but my husband is a born liar and thinks he’s perfect he loves coming across that way to ppl. I told him I’m fed up being married to a mamas boy and want a divorce. He agrees.