I have 3 kids 2 toddlers and a just turned 7 year old.

Boyfriend went to work yesterday, at like 9 am after not sleeping the entire night before cause he was out hanging out. Later on called and said he couldn’t stay at work and he needed to leave at around 11 am

Went home slept all day. All night. Slept all day today and just woke up a little while ago. I was on the phone with a friend. And he asked me. Are you watching the kids? Why are you on your phone? “While he’s watching a movie on his phone” and I made him a cheese burger and I said here babe here’s a burger cause he said he wanted one. He had the covers over his face watching his phone and just ignored me. I previously took my kids on a walk/bike ride. And he said what do you do? Don’t do anything productive your on your phone and not even watching the kids. When you gonna get your own place? And move on.. he gets really wish my washy every now and than. I had to use the bathroom cause my stomach started hurting. And he’s in the living room so I figured he could keep an eye on the kids my son grabbed a coloring book and my daughter came to the bathroom to ask if they could color and I said no because we’re about to leave. And she went and told my boyfriend that my 2 year old isn’t listening and he cut her off and said oh well. When do you listen. So I had to use the bathroom, he couldn’t let the kids know hey mom said no coloring, he just stopped my daughter and told her when do you listen? Shut up and walk away before you go in time out is what he always says. Time to leave this dumb dude