I’m just going to jump right into the situation. My husband has recently told me that he may have a child with another girl previously before we’ve ever met but he has not ever gotten a DNA test to know if that is his biological child. Fast forward two now we are married and has been together for almost 5 years and we have two babies one is two years old and the other one is six months.   as of recently my husband has not gotten in contact with this other girl who has supposedly  the other older child that he has never met. The mother has not let my husband communicate with the daughter and has been requesting money from him as a of child support for the years that he has missed out. He is willingly buying items and sending this lady money for this child that he has not gotten a DNA test for.  I have recently told him that it makes me uncomfortable that he’s willingly sending money to a lady, for child that he does not know is his. And I don’t like how he’s so comfortable communicating with this lady at all hours day and night. When I have asked me and her can be the one to communicate, he has laughed it off and hasn’t said no, but has not allowed me to even know her number I only know her name. I am stuck in a position feeling like my husband is making secret moves behind my back without proper communication between us. And say nothing at all . Some days I want to tell him to leave if he is going to communicate with this girl and not allow for the communication to be between me and her as a respect for our marriage.  What should I do and how should I go about it because I am extremely uncomfortable with him communicating with this female.