Last night my husband and I planned some intimate activities. Our toddler sleeps with us so when planning these, we usually move her to her bed which is on the other side of our room. I was able to move her successfully to her bed last night. As we were getting things started, our dog thought we were getting out of bed so she get up from hers and shook herself several times and she got flappy ears so it was loud. That caused my daughter to wake up crying. I tried to lay her back down in her bed and put her back to sleep. After an hour of doing so, I was uncomfortable from laying in her small bed, irritated bc she wasn’t going back to sleep, and just overall frustrated. I finally just took her back to our bed since she wasn’t going to sleep. My husband then texted me that we could wait till she falls asleep and try again in a few hours. It was 1am and I was tired at that point. I was also not in the mood anymore. I wasn’t saying I’ll never be in the mood again and we’ll never have sex again, just last night, all the events that occurred killed it for me. This is how our conversation went. Was I wrong for not being in the mood anymore? Or should I have rolled over and took it even though I wasn’t feeling it?

Responding to everyone stuck on our daughter being in the same room. We live with my parents. There’s only one room for the 3 of us. As for our dog, it’s winter and it’s cold outside so we bring her in at night and we can’t leave her in the living room because she’s destructive. This has only happened a few times. Our sex life is very much alive. It’s just that night I was frustrated and no longer in the mood. Like I had stated, it was already 1am. There was no turning me on again at that point because I was TIRED.