WIBTA if I reported anonymously my FIL to SSI se
So my FIL came to back to states so he could get ssi pension ($550).Problem is he will get that and going back to home country with that money every month and he already have pension over there but it’s not enough (he only have home bills and gas and groceries to pay and since he is alone there pension he has should be enough and he own house m.)And plan to never come back to states.Now if he gets ssi mil (who also get ssi for $840 without him) she will get less (they will both get $550 monthly).
Mil lives in husband’s first house and pays only payment for house and her pension covers that(and we bought our own home) and we pay for her house bills and groceries.So if he gets that we will have to cover that payment on top of our own expenses.
Now social security (ssi) allow to got outside of America for 29 days and if you want to be longer you have to call them to take you of from ssi.And if you don’t do that they will take you off and take other repercussion.
Now wibta of I reported him because I know he will not be back after 29 days (he was already there for almost a year)
Edit: to write again :if he gets ssi my husband and I will have to cover half payment for house.And if you say that is his house anyway yes you are correct but she doesn’t pay us rent she only pays how much is payment for house nothing more and we pay for her house bills and groceries.We also have our kids and house.
Edit 2: since they moved to states neither mil or FIL worked a day here they were always getting ssi and welfare checks/benefits.
Edit 3:to get more money they divorced (from both ssi and welfare).And while she have groceries and her bill paid she isn’t really concerned about him going back or whatever’s happens to him.
Edit 4: I’m gonna address some thing that seems many of you missed.Ssi is going from tax payer money and that money he is going to spend outside of states.Money that many of us return every year.
And it is my business if I will take from my kids to give to someone else.Now since you are all on case you are more than welcome to help her mother in law since you don’t understand that we will have two household to support.He didn’t earn ssi with his hard work he didn’t work a day in America since he came here.
@Zayna since you didn’t read entire post house my in laws live in it’s on my husband’s name he bought it long before we got married and moved out when we got married since he didn’t want to live with them.We bought our own hose.So FIL lives in my husband’s house.He can do with that house how he likes sell it rent it he helps his mom already and there is option for her to go in low income apartments if he and his brother chose to do and help hew there.And btw he knows how his daddy only cares about money and that he only came here to get ssi.He would take from his kids so he can have more.So please that thinking is 👎🏻.If your in laws are good doesn’t mean everyone else is.
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