My partner and I have recently been struggling to get on. We’ve moved in together in the start of October and our daughter shortly followed.

This caused turbulence in the relationship for sure, but we’re STILL having issues and we both previously admitted that our relationship is becoming weak.

My partner is concerned for money (no particular reason, money is fine but he wants to be completely comfortable and wants more than we need), and although having more money than needed is nice, im more concerned for the lack of compatibility in this relationship. I’ve been trying for a while to go the extra mile to make changes, for example, watch films together on a night, go to bed the same time & just devote time together, whilst my partner is more focused on having the perfect life with money. He is not the affectionate type at all, and anything we have done to emotionally stabilise or re-mend our relationship has been enforced by me EVERY time.

He admitted tonight that for him, our financial situation is MORE important than our emotional situation, and after all the mental work i have put in to ensure our relationship gets stronger after these fights and distancing, this have left me absolutely heartbroken, it hurt to hear it & made me cry.

Am I right to feel this way? Or am I taking this too personal?