Red flag?

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My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months. I was tickling his side earlier. Later on, he randomly grabbed my arm and bit me. It wasn’t super hard and didn’t leave a mark, but still felt like a pretty good pinch. He said that he bit me because of the tickling. But I don’t know how to feel since it was so much later. Tmi but we also were heavily making out in between lol so it just feels weird to me.

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How old are you all? Sounds like something a kid would do...if you all are adults this is super weird and I would be taking a hard pass on this guy. If you all are kids this is obviously not okay either and he's not mature enough for a relationship. It's not okay to randomly bite people as a "punishment"....very unacceptable.

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Seems to me like he was just playing around, or maybe trying to start that up again. My husband and I were playful like that when we were younger, very rarely we still have tickle fights and things like that. I don’t see how this is a red flag. People seem to say anything they don’t like or find slightly abnormal a red flag these days🤷🏻‍♀️

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I don’t find it super super weird. Just watched out for how he acts for the next days/weeks or months.  I mean that’s something that I have done but in a playful way, like “hahaha, I’m getting back at you for making me laugh so hard before”

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I don't think it's a red flag unless he's doing it to intentionally hurt you or you've said you don't like it and he doesn't listen. Sounds like he's just being playful since you were tickling him and making out

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Um yeah you need to run. Seriously just ghost him.

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I wouldn’t say it’s red flag since he didn’t particularly do it to cause you harm but it’s still an odd thing to do. Especially if you’re both adults. 😅

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If someone tickles me I’d bite their head off🤷🏻‍♀️ so annoying and childish!

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Bitting isnt a red flag unless he starts using it against you. I bite my boyfriend randomly when i feel overwhelmed because it feels good to bite, it helps me feel better igs with oral stimulation. But he also bites back sometimes. He could just be a bitter lol. If you don’t like it just tell him and communicate that

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