Is it normal?

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Is it normal that for a married man to watch porn at night?

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Yeah, we have sexual needs. You wanting to control your spouses sexual desires and masturbating is a bit controlling and weird.
I wish my boyfriend would tell me when I can and can’t have an orgasm, thats fucking weird.
Porn is just a visual representation and helps get off faster, it’s not like any of us are touching the person we’re watching.. 😂

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When it comes to porn I think it’s an important conversation to have. Porn can heavily skew someone’s perception and relationship with sex and their partner. If your spouse NEEDS to watch porn nightly, that’s a problem. Porn can be incredibly damaging, but as with everything, moderation is key.

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For some people, yes. If you’re not okay with this then you need to establish this as a boundary in your relationship.

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Well, we do have a healthy sex life and I believe I’m open to the whole porn situation, every time I try asking my husband about it, he will deny and change the topic of our conversation. Is it the guilt shame of watching and finding his pleasure via porn?

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It’s common but not normal and shouldn’t be. Porn is destructive and addictive in every way and should not be normalized. Masturbation is normal, porn is not.

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I guess it would depend on how often. I would be concerned if it was every night. But porn is also a boundary in my marriage. We don’t watch it. Definitely an important topic of convo!

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Yea it is 
But also depends on your agreed boundaries 
Everyone is entitled to their own pleasure

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My husband does. pretty sure he watches it in the morning too. Maybe in the afternoon if he wants too. It’s not a boundary in our relationship. I just ask that if I’m awake he come to me first, but if I’m not in the mood or if I’m asleep/busy hes free to do what he needs to do. It’s never created a problem in our relationship. What is normal for one relationship, doesn’t have to be normal for another. If you established a rule about no porn, and your partner is breaking that rule then that is not ok.

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