So my husband and I are planning to try for a baby. Problem is we have tried for 3 years, and I'm not sure I even want any more kids. I have a 10 year old from a previous relationship and I had her at 19. I have not experienced much life outside of mother hood and now I'm starting to be able to do more because she's getting older and doesn't need constant supervision. She also had ADHD so it's difficult with her alone sometimes. Has anyone here choosen to have another kid for their partner and regretted it? If we did get pregnant it would be loved and treated no different than my 10 year old has been but I don't have confidence in my happiness because I will be back to square 1 with child raising..

I know some people we not have nice things to say about this but I'm just looking for other people's experiences not hate please