Midwife or regular obgyn?

💛Morgan🤰🏻💛 • Pregnant with my first 10/17/22🥹❤️🤞🏻 | Baby Nico born 06/29/2023 🩵🩵| 💚Met in 2020 |💍Engaged in 2021 | 💕married in 2022 |Due June 2023

Hi, so this is my first pregnancy and I’ve only had one appointment so far I’m 11 weeks and my second appointment is during my 12th week.

I have an obgyn, it wasn’t what I expected.. she was nice but I didn’t feel like a connection? Like I just felt like there was no help? My friend got a list full of helpful things like for nausea, sleeping, prenatals, etc… mine didn’t give me anything?

I’m just questioning if a midwife is better? I have yet to decide what birthing plan I’m going with. I just know I wish to have more care and emotional connection.

Do you like obgyn or midwife more? Any advice?