Do you want to try for another baby?

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Comment if you have any tips for this convo with my husband . 
I would like another baby but I know my husband and I cannot survive the 2 under 2 thing.  My husband also isn’t sure if he wants another - which hurts me. We always thought we would have two. Hoping we can talk about it and get on the same page. 
Seeing all my November baby’s outgrown things are making me very sad and wondering if I’ll be able to use them again. 🥹🥹🥹🥹

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Honestly i wouldnt obsess over having another.... You may find that fixating so much on the next chapter could take away from the current one (not sure how long youve been wanting another but i had a friend think about having number 2 right after the first and i feel like she was constantly stressed about making it happen instead of enjoying the present with her adorable daughter). If this is you, your husband can probably pick up on the vibe and feel stressed. Be present and enjoy the moment! Create happy pressure free memories together ! And while you are wrapped up enjoying these moments you may find hour husband will come around too because he sees the joy of watching em grow.

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Just wait till baby starts gets a bit older and the sleep stuff and general parenting gets a bit easier. The old (possibly traumatic) memories of the baby stage will gradually start to fade away and then you can start to talk about how nice it will be to complete your family with one more. Best of luck x

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We’re a one child family. I don’t want to have to split my love and attention between two children, especially if they were close in age like 2 under 2. I’ve seen the struggles my best friend go through that with kids 9 months apart.

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If you know you guys would t handle having 2 under 2, don’t obsess over it and don’t bother bringing it up until you are happy with your parenting ability. 
There’s 6 years between my 2nd and 3rd baby. It’s just not something to rush and if you honestly don’t know how to talk about it, maybe you aren’t ready to.

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We want a 3rd, but it's too dangerous. Our 2 were back to back and while we would love 3 under 3 we've decided to adopt in a year or 2 instead. We plan to adopt a child within 2 years age difference of our girls.

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We’re on our fourth and final babe. 22 weeks now, due in May 💜

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I just found out I'm almost 18 weeks pregnant with my #2, his #4. Had 0 idea I was even pregnant. Totally terrified, November baby still wakes like crazy in the night. Due May 23 2023

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I have 2, ages 1 & 2. It’s very hard and I can’t imagine adding another little to the mix right now. I told my husband we could possibly try for a 3rd in 2 years when I’m 30 & the kids are a little older but now I’m not so sure since I would be graduating from a RN program and would love to go straight to work after. Maybe we are 2 & done

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I seriously can’t even think about having another baby at the moment. Life is hard enough with going back to work, I commute & stay away one night a week, my difficult relationship and a 13 month that doesn’t sleep.

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We’re officially trying now for baby number 2, I had my son on fertility treatment and currently having checks done but they want us to try naturally while the process starts again. Praying we can fall naturally(would be a dream) also we decided to try again now as I’m classed as high risk pregnant women, so atm I’m young enough to deal with it and if it takes as long as my son we won’t have a baby for 3 years. Also really want my boy to have a sibling. I’m currently 4 days late and super scared to test yet 🫣 probably not pregnant but I have to hope 🤞🏼

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