Having a hard time being married🫥

Our marriage has never been great really but after my second baby I’d rather go to bed than spend time with my husband. I’m just tapped out and honestly don’t want to small talk. I don’t really want to be touched either. Our issues are a revolving door and I’m tired of fighting and expressing how I feel so I stopped. He’s also a very loud/careless person. I’m the total opposite. It’s very frustrating. Not sure where I’m going with this. Just venting.