so a little back story is that i got diagnosed with chlamydia a few months ago. ive been with my partner for about a year and a bit and we both haven’t slept with anyone else since being with eachother HOWEVER my previous relationship of 3 years constantly cheated on me and even when we were broken up we were still seeing eachother and he’s try to rub his ‘bits’ on my area or inside.

after i got diagnosed i believe it was dormant in my system for a while and since having sex with my new partner i was having flare ups which is what made me get tested.

since then i feel like it hasn’t cleared up and right now i feel sick because i’m not sure what to do. what if i go back to the doctor and i still have it, there could be some serious side effects. i already believe it’s done damaged because for a while now when i have sex it hurts. badly. but im also worried because of traumas and insecurity that my partner could be doing this to me even though my whole family know my ex had chlamydia and gave it to me and it was dormant. i really need some advice or help. i have no one to talk to about this and feel so sick about it

edit** we have both been tested that’s how we knew we had it last time. we are both currently booked in to be tested again. is it possible the medication didn’t treat it the first time? if so im worried it can seriously impact my fertility