My husband left me with 8 children

My husband left me with 8 children over fight because of his family.

I never really had good relationships with his family, but we did ok. But I decided to cut them off after when my 1 year old daughter was in the hospital for a month in coma and on the respirator fighting for her life because of RSV. At some point she stopped breathing, doctors brought her back but she get some brain damage. I was disappointed because my in-laws didn’t call or visited her even for a minute.

Today we were driving and my husband started to tell me how difficult his family’s times are and how stressed they’re.I told him that I understand and I feel sorry for them, but I don’t want to talk about them because I’m still hurt by them.

He exploded in trash talking, calling me names and when we arrived home- he gave me our 2 months old in the car seat and left.

Before going he told me- I’m leaving, I need a normal woman to be with..

In my opinion, I was just being honest how I feel about his family. Am I wrong??