My sister and I have a friend that had a baby through <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">ivf</a> 10 months ago. Her whole pregnancy we were very supportive and as soon as we found out she was having a boy we packed up all of the things my nephew (3) had grown out of in the even that she wanted it.

Baby comes and when we go to meet him our friend mentions that she has her daughter "on ice" and plans to get pregnant again in a couple years.

My sister found out she was pregnant a few weeks prior, but didn't announce for a while so that our friend could enjoy her baby and sending pics and all that without feeling like she was being over shadowed.

Fast forward, it's a girl!

At my sister's baby shower as she's opening gifts the friend say more than once, "oh that's cute, can't wait until it gets handed down to my daughter"

Baby comes and my sister sends out a text to the group chat with a picture and all the details and the friend sends a picture of her kid in response and said "he's getting so big." No congratulations, no "she's so beautiful," nothing.

At friendsgiving, when meeting the baby for the first time the friend said right to the baby "grow out of your things fast so my daughter can have them"

Sister's baby is now 7 weeks old, and the friend texted asking when she could have the hand me downs. That are still being used.

She's not pregnant.

Like that's rude right? We're not mad for no reason?