So I got married a week ago and finally had sex. We were both virgins and waited until marriage to have sex. My husband is well endowed and very girthy (about 7 inches in length and I can’t wrap my thumb and index around the base of his penis). It took us a couple of tries over a week period with lots of lube and patience for me to relax enough for it to go all the way in. The only way for me to relax was for him to touch my clit while penetrating me.

It can finally go in with minimal to no pain after the 6th try, but I only really feel good when he’s playing with my clit. We have done doggy style, missionary, lotus, and me on top but we can’t find a way for him to play with my clit at the same time. We’re both a bit chubby so my stomach tends to block his hands.

Are there any positions where he can penetrate me and still stimulate my clit with his fingers? I am not comfortable with adding vibrators to our sex life yet.

We appreciate all the help and feel free to ask any questions if needed to formulate a response 🙂 no