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If you lie on your back with your legs in the air and he kneels in front of you.
Please help! Sex position struggle!
So I got married a week ago and finally had sex. We were both virgins and waited until marriage to have sex. My husband is well endowed and very girthy (about 7 inches in length and I can’t wrap my thumb and index around the base of his penis). It took us a couple of tries over a week period with lots of lube and patience for me to relax enough for it to go all the way in. The only way for me to relax was for him to touch my clit while penetrating me.
It can finally go in with minimal to no pain after the 6th try, but I only really feel good when he’s playing with my clit. We have done doggy style, missionary, lotus, and me on top but we can’t find a way for him to play with my clit at the same time. We’re both a bit chubby so my stomach tends to block his hands.
Are there any positions where he can penetrate me and still stimulate my clit with his fingers? I am not comfortable with adding vibrators to our sex life yet.
We appreciate all the help and feel free to ask any questions if needed to formulate a response 🙂 no
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Lay at the long edge of a taller bed with two pillows under your hips and your legs hanging off the bed. Have your partner stand along the same edge between your legs to penetrate you. The height will give him access to your g spot and you’ll have plenty of room to stimulate your clit yourself! Enjoy!
First congrats on your marriage and blessings to you in your marriage. And congrats on waiting for marriage.To answer your question, in our experience it generally doesn't work to have him stimulate you, unless your laying side by side.Some positions you can try having him stimulate you in though.You laying on your back and him kneeling between your legs. (My wife and I use this as our go to, except that I lean over the top of her supporting myself above her while she stimulates herself).If you have a tall enough bed he can stand next to the bed while you lay on the side of the bed. And you can put your legs on his shoulders, around his waist, or back against your chest.You can also try cowgirl.
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You can also try having him give you oral first and then let him have his fun.
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