No help at home
Ok. I am burnt out! I feel like I do it all. But before y’all say anything. It was not like this before. We been together for over 10 years and somewhere along the line within 5 years my husband has just stopped helping around the house. I noticed after child #2 that he it started with the small things. Normally he would help me as far as washing the dishes and everything else but then he would say he would and just never get to it. By our their child… I’ve realized that I am doing all the in house stuff. And I work too. We both work 8 hr jobs and he uses the excuse of wanting to go to the gym or he has something he has to do and I’m left with doing laundry, cleaning up after cooking, putting the kids to bed and preparing them for school in the morning as well. So when I tried to talk to him. He went to say that I’m nagging and not considering the fact he has stuff to do when he gets off like I don’t have things I wanna do too! But I can’t because I have to clean. This what annoys me the most. When he comes home and ask why the house a mess like he don’t see me still cleaning before and after he leaves. Man this is really trying my marriage now and idk how to face it. He won’t listen or want to talk about it. He has gotten lazy to where he doesn’t help me out and I refuse to clean this entire house by my self! What should I do?
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