Hey, so I’m 19 and I’ve been having a problem with sex, It hurts almost every time. Sometimes worse then others where I’m in so much pain we have to stop. And recently after we had rougher sex then usual(totally consensual) I started bleeding and having a burning sensation while peeing. The burning went away and so did the bleeding for a day. Then we figured it was fine so we didn’t go fast after that. We took it slow and tried different positions but as we did it just got substantially worse and then when we stopped the bleeding came back.

Now I am on bc and we use condoms and lube(the lube was drying out pretty fast). So I’m really worried because this definitely isn’t normal for me to have spotting. I’m supposed to be getting my period this week but with the bleeding it’s hard to tell if it even started. And like 2 weeks ago now I missed a few pills(doubled up and took them as soon as I remembered) but I had some light bleeding that went away as soon as I got myself back on my moaned schedule. I don’t know if that could have anything to do with it?

I am fairly new to having sex so these things really freak me out-