i’m worried about my friend. i’ve known her for years and i love her and care about her a lot. we’ve definitely grown apart a bit but i try to keep in contact. last time we met up to catch up for lunch after not seeing her for about a year she kept throwing up multiple times and later told me she’d been using drugs. i thought she meant weed and i was like oh chill cuz i smoke hella, but she meant DRUGS like coke, heroin, pills, all that… this was a huge shock to me

i did notice she had lost a lot of weight and looked very sleep deprived but i try not to judge. her boyfriend is a dealer and was in rehab last yr for fent, tbh i never liked him bc i didn’t think he was a good influence, but again she seemed happy with him so i didn’t judge. now things are different… the only interaction we’ve had since that meet up was her texting me asking if i knew anyone that sells shrooms and i just left her on delivered bc i don’t know how to respond. i’ve just never been in a situation like this before, if anything i was always the badder kid getting into trouble sneaking out dealing with the cops and she was like the mom, but now that we’re out of high school i’ve chilled out a lot more and ig she’s the opposite. what do i do??? i don’t want to scare her away, but i also would feel horrible and sort of responsible if something happened to her. i don’t want to be a hypocrite bc ive done a lot of dumb stuff but these aren’t fun drugs and she does not seem like she’s having fun at all. we’re very young still so that’s why i feel like she’s at risk for being in danger… what’s a good way to talk to her to make her feel safe and also steer her in a good direction? her mental health is very low too, i just wanna do the right thing and i could just mind my business since we rarely talk anymore but she was my best friend once and i feel a bit responsible…