Everything was great, he says he wants to go out for a few beers, I'm cool with that. I drop him off at 6.30pm. he doesnt come home until I call him at 3am asking where he is and why he's still out. A few beers turns into an all nighter and taking drugs with his mate. It isn't the first time it's happened and I'm hurt that I can't trust what he says. I'm annoyed that I'm at home with the kids all the time and I'm easy going whenever he wants to go out but he never keeps his word. It's not a one off it's how the night always turns out when he says it will only be a few beers.

Am I over reacting being pissed off. If I go out I'm always home when I say I will be and I've never been out until 3am without him. When he stays out that late he's written off the next day and sometimes for two days recovering and I have to tend to the kids and do everything and I feel like it's really unfair. We are in our 30s with a family. Should I expect him to keep his word and not be out so late? Or do I have a right to be annoyed at the way he's treating me. He says sorry it won't happen again and then a month or so later it's the same old thing. Our relationship was really great I dont see why he would make things shitty between us. Now I've been off it for a few days annoyed at how things played out. Would you be pissed off too? We've been together 8 years