If you had friends who had a son and another friend who had a daughter for your son and daughter to marry and they were with you on arranged marriages would you think about it. My kids are still babies my so is 2yr old and my daughter is 8moths old so it’s not a big thought in my mind but I think there is good thought behind it like where we live domestic violence, divorce, and single parents are high and rates are getting high im so scared of my kids being abused or being left to be single parents so the thought of following the arrangement helps those fears and my friends have the same boundaries and raising their kids the same as our kids. Am I wrong for thinking of arrange marriage I would be okay if they grew up and decided not to I wouldnt be mad but I would still want the option but ppl said I’m crappy for even doing it. I disappointed my family because they had me arranged with someone and I chose not to but I was also only 16 and they wanted me to move states with him, but they were upset and disappointed I got with my husband at 16 had a baby at 18 and got pregnant again at 19 and got married before we had our first and they didn’t approve.

Sorry for all the rant but would you do arrange marriage