So what’s your guys opinions.

Partner and I have been together 5 years.

So we have a no porn thing in our relationship. Porn was an issue in the beginning I know men watch it. But me personally I don’t agree with it. I feel it’s disrespectful this is just my own personal opinion. To which he did end up agreeing and seeing my point on it and he said he wouldn’t watch anymore. I legit don’t feel like he did. He always had no problems having sex up until the last few months! All a sudden it changed completely. He wouldn’t have sex with me, no desire or interest in it AT ALL. It was getting to the point of only having sex once a month I like begged at one point. I asked if anything was wrong, was he no longer attracted to me? Loosing feelings? Stressed? Low testosterone like what’s going on basically. He just said stressed. Understandable. We have 3 kids and a chaotic life most times. I didn’t think anything more of it? I did question porn but he promised me he doesn’t. I believed him? We have had no issues on porn since like the beginning of our relationship 5 years ago. Lol

Until, a few weeks back I went on our family plan thing on the iPhone/iPads. I turned off everyone’s private mode and adult websites because our kids have iPads. I realized it turned mine and his off as well as the kids. I ended up forgetting completely about it because he was working that day and I got busy with kids it didn’t even cross my mind.

Ever since I turned it off I notice a HUGE difference. He’s been wanting sex, constantly touching me, seems more like affectionate lovey towards me. That he hasn’t been for months!!! I literally questioned if he even had feelings for me bc it was feeling like roommates only so to go from that for months to now wanting me again and loving on me all the time almost too much and it’s only been since I turned the private mode off!

I started thinking wait. Is it a coincidence that ever since the private browsers has been turned off he’s all a sudden wanting me again?

I did tell him, when I turned it off on the family thing it turned ours off and asked if he watched porn the last few months bc it was just odd timing to be wanting sex again? He swears no. But it’s just so odd.

What do you guys think? Again please be respectful of my feelings towards porn. It’s not something I’ll ever change my mind about…. Do you guys think he was neglecting me bc of porn or is this all a big coincidence?