So I’ve been with my man since 2015. He proposed 2021 New Year’s Day. And a week later we found out we were pregnant. So we put the wedding off til the baby. But after my son was born my fiancé didn’t like planning the wedding anymore. He’d start a fight if it was brought up and I thought it was because he was stressed. Well now our son is 14 months and I’m 6 weeks pregnant and now I’m hearing he doesn’t know if he’s still in love with me.

I found myself becoming a mom. It’s healed me in ways I never knew. I’m so happy and to watch my fiancé play with our son is the most amazing thing it fills my heart with so much love. But evidently having a son has done the opposite for him.

He doesn’t think we can spend time together when our son is asleep for the night and only wants to when his mom watch’s him. Problem is his mom does what ever she wants with our son so I stopped letting her watch him after him being hurt multiple times. But my fiancé blames me for not forgiving her and letting her watch him again. She hasn’t changed and constantly comments on how I’m parenting wrong because it’s not the way she parented. So basically if I refuse to let her watch my son knowing she’ll do what she wants again, then my fiancé thinks we should break up. He’s even made comments about having a therapist involved in deciding if it’s something that’s just how I am and if it should be worth him staying.. like basically trying to get the ok to leave from a professional.

Idk what to do. He wanted this out baby. I feel confused and stuck. I want to protect my son….