How would you feel about your mother saying and doing this?

Recently she’s told me “you not even that cute I don’t see why men like you” and it honestly hurt my feelings. Growing up she always looked at me up and down like I disgusted her & I never understood why!

Now yesterday she was being sexual towards my baby dad, grabbing his hand and rubbing on them! Lately I noticed every time he comes around her body language becomes extra sexy and she only wants to engage in conversation with him. When I mentioned it she got mad at me for feeling some type of way!

Just want others insight on how they feel about these 2 scenarios… am I overthinking or is it something deeper?