Built like a fridge

I tried on christmas dresses and my hips are so wide it’s making me upset. they are 37 inches and my waist is 28. I feel like this is so disproportionate. my whole body is just out of sorts like the top half is fine and bottom half is from a different human. I have all these dresses I feel like I can’t wear and I wasted money. it upsets me. is there a way I could make my hips smaller??