Hello everyone, I recently had a argument with my mother, I was waiting for an important piece of mail and she had the piece of mail for a week and when she finally decided to go through her mail she gane it to me but because of this I lost a few things, I stopped talking to her for a few weeks and didn’t take her granddaughter to visit her for that time well a few days later she send me a message saying that she misses her granddaughter and that she wishes to see her and that she is not full of hate like me and that if I don’t take her granddaughter to visit that she will be forced to use her grandmother rights and take me to court . What’s sad is that same day I was thinking of taking my daughter to visit her so that we can talk about things. But after that message it made me so mad that I feel like I can’t trust her, I feel like betrayed by my own mother like I expected this from my boyfriends family but not my mother. For reference I am her only daughter and it’s just her and I in the same state we have no family besides one another. So my problem is it’s been a while like 2 months and a week since I’ve seen her. What I can’t figure out is how do I communicate to her that what she said was wrong and that it made me more mad and want to stay away from her than anything else. Am I over reacting? Am I in the wrong? My aunt and cousin are saying I should let it go and just take my daughter to visit.