hey, i just want someone to give me their opinion, completely unbiased.

me, my boyfriend and a couple of his male friends were having a conversation about abortions and their hatred towards wearing a condom when having sex.

we were debating for a while when i asked my boyfriend (24, been together for just over a year) if he would rather me have an abortion than him have to wear a condom.

he replied yes.

i left the room shortly after as this upset me coming from someone who is supposed to want to care and look after you but he seems to care more about sex ‘feeling better’

is it valid for me to be upset? i know it’s just his personal preference but what if i had to get an abortion for whatever reason? i would feel like i had to do it alone because he wouldn’t be supportive.

please let

me know.

i’m 21 and a girl by the way:)