Long post everyone, I’m so sorry.

So my husband is starting a new job soon and he has to take online training classes almost every day. His dad is coming up to vacation 5 hours away, he wants us to meet him for our Christmas presents. His dad has never visited us but he always visits close to us. There are so many things going on I don’t think we are going to be able to go. I work all week and weekends. I barely take days off because I take care of my elderly aunt who has end stage kidney failure and a open wound I have to tend to. I pay all the bills atm and I’m in a struggle. The car needs new tires and on top of that my husband has to do the training the day his dad wants to meet us. I offered to drive him while he slept because the class is from 12 pm until 7pm. He gets furious and throws things, he threw a pen and it hit off the wall and hit me. I know he’s frustrated but he says I don’t care because I have my family here. He gets in my face and says I never care. I yell at him to get out of my face I don’t deserve this. I know I shouldn’t have fed into his anger but I have been carrying us for a long time. He walks away crying. What can I do? I feel like I’m stretched super thin? I do care about him and his family. He agreed to move here (NC) because it is super cheap to start our family here compared to where his family is from (south FL). Sorry for the long post. He has never acted out this bad before. Thanks for reading and I hope everyone has a merry Christmas or Chanukah and all the other holidays I’ve missed!