I’m 8 months pregnant and just want to nest today and get shit ready for the baby, I want to organize clean, etc. well my husband gets a call from his aunt and uncle saying they are coming over in a few hours with their 6 kids. As much as I love them I really like a heads up before I have ppl over because I like to entertain and have food prepared and stuff and I just hate switching up my schedule. Now I feel like a bitch because my intital reaction was annoyed but mostly because my husband doesn’t even ask and just was like sure! Sounds good. Meanwhile I had a whole plan today. I’m working on it in therapy but just annoyed because now my husband is annoyed with me because I acted that way. Well too damn bad, I’m tired, pregnant and need to get shit done.

Am I an asshole? I feel like one but now I’m fine and getting ready for them to come over

Thank you everyone!

I just want to update that his uncle is coming over to help install something for the house but like……I still wasn’t asked. Additionally, I said I would pay for a nice holiday gift for him and his family to thank him and I let my husband know that I would pay. My husband has no issue for me paying for an expensive gift to thank him. I did offer but still I’m just really annoyed with my husband