long story short i keep having arguments with my boyfriend because he keeps smoking weed (and adds cigarettes to it) in our car. we have our kids car seats in there. our little kids (4 and 2) go in there. i’m pregnant with our third. the seats are cloth material. it STINKS.

he thinks rolling down the windows help. i still smell it. he tells me he’s going to stop, but still does it. he smokes in there every night (sometimes twice) for an hour or so. so the next morning it’s bad.

i get headaches when i’m in there (maybe just a coincidence?) but i’m sensitive to it. i don’t smoke. i never have smoked cigarettes. i don’t want my kids exposed to this. i think it’s crazy that i even have to explain this to him and keep having the argument.

first it was him smoking in the garage, then the whole house would stink. i would be all stuffed up because of it. now it’s the car. i would obviously rather him not smoke, but i’m not going to tell him what to do…but it’s like smoke outside then. idc if it’s freezing/snowing…this is mine and our babies health.

we just go into an argument because he came inside after putting our 2 year old in the car, when i was just about to go to the car and said that he’s sorry he forgot to roll down the window and so it stinks in there. that he doesn’t want to fight. that he’s done doing it. so naturally i got annoyed. i told him idk why we keep even arguing about this and why i even have to tell

him about this. we have a NEWBORN BABY coming in a month. you need to stop. and so i didn’t even go. it smells so bad of cigarettes.

then he drove off to the store with our 2 year old. when he comes back what should i do? i already know he’s pissed off at me. he says he doesn’t want to listen to me complain…but wtf?! am i wrong???