He’s been with this concrete company for almost 2 years now, his boss isn’t the best but he seems like an okay guy outside of work hours. His boss has anger issues and has more than Once gone off on his crew about stupid stuff calling them dumb, stupid and idiots.

My fiancé has come home the last few weeks just not himself, anytime I ask what’s up or what’s wrong he turns it right off and acts like nothing could possibly be wrong (I hate that he does that, I do pry though). My fiancé had a medical marijuana card for micro dosing use, he had arthritis in his back, anxiety and depression which it really helps regulate his moods and helps with his pain levels when he’s having a bad back day. He doesn’t smoke to get “high” he smokes to feel better just like you would take hydrocodone to feel better while in pain. He NEVER has gone to work under the influence, he only consumes when he’s off and at home in the PM.

I manage a medical marijuana dispensary and have for almost a year now, his boss knows this and has started being very condensing with him about the use of his medicine. He calls him and idiot saying he can’t go anywhere in life (when he has come very far, he couldn’t go to school like he wanted because his parents kicked him out at 18 and he didn’t have the funds, didn’t want to put himself in debt when he didn’t even have housing/car/ etc… we have been saving up once we get a home we will both be going back for online college) not that schooling is any of his bosses business.

my fiancé also told me that his boss constantly talks about the guys never have any money to buy stuff for the shop (why is this stuff bought out of their pockets with no reimbursement?!?!) my fiancé is a very good saver and a very smart spender, his boss is making him feel like he’s behind in life since we don’t have a home yet. (Literally all over a house his boss thinks we don’t have money)

We’re both only 22! I hate seeing what this job is doing to him for the sake of money. I want him to be happy, when he’s not happy I’m not happy and that isn’t good for our relationship, I try not to take it personally but I do sometimes, how can’t you when the frustration is directed towards you?

Little does his boss know that we’re actually getting approved for a home loan here soon in February once we have the down payment saved ( $8,000) we also may qualify for FHA too but we aren’t too sure as we haven’t explored our options too much at the moment since the money isn’t there yet.

I’ve told him multiple times I’m not with him for the money he makes, I remind him where he’s come from and how far he’s come in the almost 5 years we’ve been together. He’s an amazing man and I just want to support him but i just don’t know how if his boss is being this mentally dragging..

Should he just quit? Ride it out? Find a new job? He’s not a quitter and quitting makes him feel like he isn’t good enough but I feel like his boss is making him feel like that in a daily