I’m a people pleaser/pushover I always say yes to things even tho I don’t want them…

I didn’t care to do a shower but I did for my boyfriend and his family, i skipped thanksgiving with my family and just went to the in laws, I didn’t want a party for our sons baptism but we ended up having one..

So now they want to come over Christmas Day… but hear me out before ya tell me I’m thankful to have grandparents in our child’s life…

We are going to my in laws Christmas <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">eve</a> morning till 430pm then going to my parents. A week after Christmas back to my in laws bc sister in law will be in town so celebrating Christmas again..

This whole time we had it planned to spend Christmas Day at home and just bond as a new family and enjoy our memories without the stress of people pleasing….

I don’t wanna be an asshole but I genuinely looked forward to finally doing something I want. And I’m feeling guilty about it but same time I never ever put me needs or wants first, I don’t like disappointing people.