I don’t think I’m happy in my relationship anymore.

I was In a abusive relationship for 9 years and I got out of that a few years ago, and I was doing really well being single with me and my daughter.

Then I met my now partner, and we’ve been together for 7 months, and she just speaks to me like crap like in a really rude tone, even if it’s just a normal conversation.

I have Brought it up many times and nothing changes. She doesn’t even notice she does it.. she always uses her ADHD as an excuse for everything.

The smorning my alarm went off and 8am and I started at 845am, so I wanted time to have a coffee and then leave, I turned my alarm off and checked my phone as my mum had my daughter lastnight & and msged my friend to see how her sick dog was.

Then I was gna lay there for a bit and cuddle her but she goes “ I’m clearly not your first thought anymore” and I was like what? Then started saying all this shit and when I’m trying to talk to her about she uses that horrible tone and says I’m frustrating her.

So I got up and started to get ready, and I give her a kiss and say I have to go to work now, and she just says a shitty good bye.. makes me feel even more upset.

I said are you happy? And she looked at me with this look and was going to say something and then just said yes.. and I said why did you look like that when I asked you? If your not happy then u need to tell me..

anyways I left crying.. cause she just said I don’t know .. then said yes.

I do so much for her, her love language is acts of service .. I always bring her food and coffee when she’s on nigjt shift , I always clean the house so it’s all clean.. do washing , took her out for dinner lastnight, I always try my very best to show her that I love her.

But lately I’m always walking on egg shells ..

it makes me think a lot of my ex .. Cause nothing I did was good enough. It’s like I’m just in the same pattern again and now I’m at work and I feel like shit . Even though she msged me and said sorry and that she is happy with us and she will work on how she speaks to me .. but I just don’t know how to feel. I don’t want to feel like I’m stuck again in a relationship.. like I did with my ex. It was a lot for me to leave my ex , she was narcissistic and just horrible .. things with my partner have changed so much.. I just don’t like it, and I dont know what to do cause I do love her so much.

Can anyone give me some help thank you