Difference in pregnancies?

J

TTC for baby #2 & can’t help but constantly be comparing to first pregnancy.

For those who had multiple pregnancies, were they different experiences? Or fairly similar?

3rd month of trying & 11dpo & tested negative with FMU. My first pregnancy, I got my first positive 9dpo so I’m feeling discouraged.

Also using Amazon tests (making baby brand or something & mommed).

Please give me your insights & baby dusts. Just feeling so blah. Thanks everyone!