My husband wants to separate after 10 years for someone else. I’m not going to be struggling single mom so I’m going to leave our two kids with him. I havent worked for years. Before you judge one of my kids as adhd and our 3 year old just got diagnosed with autism. I go back and forth between extensive therapy’s, doctors appointments and services for them so I didn’t have the time to work. In the end I don’t regret staying at home with them even though I’m almost 30 with no job experience and credits for retirement. I really hope one day the will be able to understand and forgive me.