Husband didn’t want baby, and I’m pregnant.
I don’t even know where to start. Me and my husbands relationships has been on the rocks for a while now. I wanted another baby for a while now. He didn’t. He wanted to wait until I changed for him to want to have another baby with me. I’m not a perfect person and I’m in therapy trying to work out my issues. But we unexpectedly got pregnant and though he is happy and excited, we had a big fight yesterday and today and the truth came out. His family is super tough to deal with and to be honest I don’t want my kids anywhere around them. (Very toxic family) and we fight about it a lot. Well some stuff happened that really upset me and it turned into a huge fight where he said our marriage is really really on the rocks and why do you think I didn’t want another baby with you. And even though he is excited and happy he doesn’t want this baby. To be honest it just breaks my heart. I don’t have a support system here my family lives far away and I’m so alone. To know my husband doesn’t want this baby and is ready to move to the basement (we won’t get divorced) that has never been an option but that’s how we would live our lives. I’m young and I just never thought this is how my life was going to turn out. I’m sorry for the rant. I just don’t have anybody to talk too. Needed to get these feelings out:(
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