I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 9years. We were high school sweethearts and we have currently been living together for 4 years. We both want to get married and have kids. He just says it will happen when the time is right. Does it make me a bad person to feel depressed when I see a couples who hasn’t been together long get engaged or have kids? I mean I’m happy for them but it just makes me depressed to see that type of stuff. It makes me feel like he’s not in any rush since we already live together. He is diagnosed with Autism and he hates to have attention focused on him so I think that’s why he hasn’t done it yet.