I have a dodgy cousin. She's had a thing for my husband / acts like it at least, for years now. Examples of her behaviour:

*Sat with her head on his shoulder at a party

*Hugged him goodbye multiple times at this party

*Lost her phone and asked him for his number again. Did not ask for mine.

*Talks about the most random stuff just to be able to have a conversation with him.

*Always has to be sitting/ standing close to him or within his eyeline.

*Once I was squeezed onto a two seater couch with him and my sister, I got up momentarily and came back to find her wedged in the couch between him and my sister.

*They messaged each other about a concert, I had no clue about this until after the fact. But SHE initiated the conversation.

*She's forever staring at him. I know this because I am forever staring at her wondering wtf.

Because she is 10 years younger than my husband, he hasn't seen her as anything other than a little cousin. Anyway, those are the biggest behaviour things I've noticed.

Other than general family events (and apparently that concert), we don't see or hear from them. The ONE time I invited her over, she decided to go off to a bar with my sisters instead (those plans were made literally during the same chat where I had just invited people over). We aren't generally invited to their things, I mean she didn't even invite me to her birthday party this year. Anyway.

Obviously yesterday was Christmas. I had a migraine and was stuck in bed all day so we didn't go to that side of the family. Nothing odd, right?

Only, for some reason, my cousin tried to phone me to find out if we were coming. I didn't answer as my phone was on silent and I was trying to sleep with an eye mask on so I wasn't paying attention to my phone. Then she called my husband and he answered and he said no.

And I just thought that was so weird. She has literally never, EVER called me or even messaged me (I wish her happy birthday most years and that the extent of it). We've definitely drifted since I've noticed her dodgy behaviour with my husband.

I just wonder what her deal was... Apparently she's got this fiance now (who proposed to her from another country, a week after she was at a bar with another guy (and my sisters)) and I wonder if that has anything to do with it... Anyone have any clues?