I was 19 when I had my oldest with my first baby dad. After the relationship ended I found out he had cheated on me and had an extra child. She found me on Facebook and she kept harassing me to meet up with her. My child was only 6 months and hers was just born. So there was no need to meet up with her, when I would go outside or walk to the park I would see her and her sister so I figured if she really wanted to talk to me she would have walked up to me then. I blocked her and she got her sister to do it. I blocked the sister didn’t understand why until I found out how old she was she was 17 she got pregnant at 16. I was 20 a grown woman so I’m not going to argue with a child of course. My child was the oldest.My baby dad and I had no contact until my daughter was 6 years old. My mom set up a meet up with him to see our daughter my mom gave him my number started talking about our child jumped off subject we got back to together. Fast forward to now I was at his mothers house picking up my child the other baby was there. My baby dad’s mother had her come at the same time as me not sure if she was trying to be messy but it happened. Basically she got wind we were together then she told him as long as he is with me he can’t see his daughter. Now she has “beef” with me I don’t understand why I was there first he ment you when I was 4 months pregnant. My baby was already developed. At the time he was 21 and I had just turned 19. He told me that she lied to him about his age and I’m sorry but my baby dad doesn’t have it all in the brain if catch my drift. All I’m saying is why have an issue with me we live together. Y’all not being together has nothing to do with me?